The Queen’s Uncle: Sir William Parr, 1st Baron Parr of Horton

Sir William Parr, 1st Baron Parr of Horton (c. 1483 – 10 September 1546) was the son of Sir William Parr of Kendal and his wife Elizabeth Fitzhugh. His mother was a niece to Warwick, the Kingmaker and thus a cousin of Anne Neville, Duchess of Gloucester and Queen of England as the wife of Richard III. Lady Elizabeth and her mother, Lady Alice FitzHugh, rode in the coronation train for Anne when she became queen and it is believed they stayed on as ladies to the queen. Elizabeth had been in the household since Anne became Duchess.

Parr’s siblings included an elder brother, Sir Thomas Parr of Kendal (d.1517), who was father to the future queen of England, the Marquess of Northampton, and the Countess of Pembroke. Their sister Anne married Thomas Cheney (or Chenye) and was mother to Lady Elizabeth Vaux, wife of the 2nd Baron Vaux of Harrowden. The father of the 2nd Baron was Nicholas Vaux, 1st Baron. His first wife was the widowed Lady Elizabeth Parr, mother to Thomas, William, and Anne. By Elizabeth, Nicholas had 3 daughters, Lady Katherine Throckmorton, Lady Alice Sapcote, and Lady Anne le Strange.

William Parr was a military man who fought in France, where he was knighted by King Henry VIII at Tournai Cathedral, and Scotland. Parr seemed to be uncomfortable in court circles and insecure in securing relationships. None the less he accompanied the King at the ‘Field of the Cloth of Gold’ in France. Like his brother, Sir Thomas Parr, William flourished under Sir Nicholas Vaux.

William was a family man. After the death of his brother, Sir Thomas Parr, William’s sister-in-law Maud, widowed at age 25, called upon him to help in financial matters and to manage her estates in North England while she was busy in the south securing a future for her three children. William had been named one of the executors of his brother’s will. Along with Cuthbert Tunstall, a kinsman of the Parrs, Parr provided the kind of protection and father figure which was missing in the lives of Maud’s children. William’s children were educated along side Maud’s children.

Although William was en-adapt at handling his financial matters, he was ironically appointed the office of Chamberlain in the separate household of Henry FitzRoy, 1st Duke of Richmond and Somerset, the acknowledged illegitimate son of King Henry VIII and Elizabeth Blount, based at Sheriff Hutton Castle in Yorkshire. It was William who found a spot for his nephew, William Parr, later Earl of Essex, in the Duke’s household where he would be educated by the very best tutors and mixed with the sons of other prominent families. Though thought to be a wonderful environment for Parr and his nephew to flourish in, the household was not a great passport to success as Parr hoped for. Henry VIII was very fond of his illegitimate son, but had no intention of naming him his heir. It has been claimed that Parr and his sister-in-law, Maud Parr, coached William to make sure that he ingratiated himself with the Duke, in case the Duke became heir to the throne but there is no factual evidence to support this claim.

Although Parr was named Chamberlain of the Duke’s household, the household was actually controlled by Cardinal Thomas Wolsey in London. This control by Wolsey diminished any opportunity of Parr gaining financial benefit or wider influence. Along with the limited possibilities came other daily frustrations as the Duke’s tutors and the household officers under Parr disagreed on the balance of recreation and study. Parr was a countryman who thought it perfectly normal for boys to prefer hunting and sports to the boring rhetoric of learning Latin and Greek. As the Duke’s behavior became more unruly Parr and his colleagues found it quite amusing. The Duke’s tutor, John Palsgrave, who had only been employed six months, would not tolerate being undermined and decided to resign. Such was the household in which Parr presided over. Parr was suspicious of schoolmaster priests and anyone of lesser birth, even though he was not considered a nobleman at the time. The experience did not further the Parr family. If Sir William had paid more attention to his duties and responsibilities he may have reaped some sort of advancement; thus when the overmanned and over budgeted household was dissolved in the summer of 1529, Parr found himself embittered by his failure to find any personal advancement or profit from the whole ordeal.

Despite his failed attempts at achieving personal gain from the household of the Duke, Sir William made up for it during the Pilgrimage of Grace during 1536. William showed impeccable loyalty to the Crown during the rebellion. He had been in Lincolnshire along with Charles Brandon, 1st Duke of Suffolk and supervised the executions at Louth and Horncastle. William tried to ingratiate himself with Thomas Howard, 3rd Duke of Norfolk and Thomas Cromwell, 1st Earl of Essex. Parr’s presence at the execution in Hull of Sir Robert Constable prompted Cromwell to share in confidence a correspondence in which he received from the Duke of Norfolk on William’s “goodness” which “never proved the like in any friend before.”

Sir William was Sheriff of Northamptonshire in 1518 and 1522. He was also Esquire to the Body to Henry VII and Henry VIII. In addition to this, he was a third cousin to King Henry VIII through his mother. William was appointed Chamberlain to his niece Katherine Parr and when she became Queen regent during Henry’s time in France, Catherine appointed William part of her council. Although he was too ill to attend meetings, the appointment shows her confidence in her uncle.

Parr was knighted by King Henry VIII on Christmas Day, 1513. He was made a peer of the realm as 1st Baron Parr of Horton on 23 December 1543. Upon his death in 1546, with no male heirs, the barony became extinct.

He married Mary Salisbury, the daughter and co-heir of Sir William Salisbury; who brought as her dowry the manor of Horton. It was a happy marriage which produced four daughters who survived infancy:

* Maud (Magdalen) Parr, who married Sir Ralph Lane of Orlingbury. One of their children was Sir Ralph Lane, the explorer. Maud grew up with her cousin Katherine Parr, who would later become the last queen of Henry VIII. Maud would become a lifelong friend and confidante of the queen.
* Anne Parr, who married Sir John Digby.
* Elizabeth Parr, who married Sir Nicholas Woodhall.
* Mary Parr, who married Sir Thomas Tresham I.

He is buried at Horton, Northamptonshire where the family estate was.

Lady Maud Lane and Lady Mary Tresham are ancestors to the Prince of Wales and the Duke of Sussex through their late mother, the Princess of Wales.

Ever wonder why SOME sources mix up Anne and Mary?

References

‘Parishes: Horton’, A History of the County of Northampton: Volume 4 (1937), pp. 259-262. URL: http://www.british-history.ac.uk/report.aspx?compid=66363&strquery=SirWilliamParr Date accessed: 19 October 2010.

Burke, A general and heraldic dictionary of the peerages of England, Ireland, and Scotland, extinct, dormant, and in abeyance, pg. 411

Porter, Linda. Katherine, the Queen: The Remarkable Life of Katherine Parr, the Last Wife of Henry VIII. Macmillan, 2010.

The Family of Queen Katherine: the wife of Sir Thomas Tresham (d.1559)

Sir Thomas Tresham was born by 1500 to Sir John of Rushton and Isabel, daughter of Sir James Harrington of Hornby. He was married to a daughter of Sir William Parr, 1st Baron Parr of Horton, uncle to Queen Katherine Parr. Which daughter? Oh dear! Depends on the source. Some say Mary. Some say Anne. So let’s look at these sources. Can we finally identify which daughter of Lord Parr became Lady Tresham?

So…let’s start at Wikipedia. Why? Because it comes up first in the search for “Sir Thomas Tresham” and let’s face it, most people will just click on his grandson and call it a day. So, you’re looking for Sir Thomas Tresham (1500-59). His wife here on Wiki is Mary Parr, youngest daughter and coheiress to Lord Parr of Horton. Source? John Burke. A genealogical and heraldic history of the extinct and dormant baronetcies of England, Ireland, and Scotland, pg. 532 which states:

“He m. the Honourable Mary Parr, youngest daughter and co-heir of William, Lord Parr, of Horton…”

Ok. So a legit source used for genealogy says it’s Mary. Any other sources? You betcha!

Burke’s A Genealogical and Heraldic Dictionary of the Peerages of England, Ireland and Scotland, Extinet, Dormant and in Abeyance. E. Ed., pg. 411 which states:

“Anne, m. to Sir John Digby, of Ketilby, in the county of Leicester.

Mary, m. to Sir Thomas Tresham, Knt.”

Douglas Richardson’s Magna Carta Ancestry: A Study in Colonial and Medieval Families, 2nd Edition, 2011, pg. 300 which states:

“They had four daughters, Maud (wife of Ralph Lane, Knt.), Anne (wife of John Digby, Knt.), Elizabeth, Mary (wife of Thomas Tresham, Knt.)

HOWEVER…a source listed in the notes says:

“Tresham ped.: “Sir Thomas Tresham, Kt. Lord Prior of Jerusalem in England = Anne, da. and coheir of Sir William Parr of Horton, Kt…”

A note from a chapter in the back of Nicola Tallis’s Elizabeth’s Rival: The Tumultuous Tale of Lettice Knollys, Countess of Leicester, 2017 which states:

“Francis Tresham was the grandson of Thomas Tresham by his first wife, Mary Parr. Thomas’s second wife was Lettice’s paternal grandmother, Lettice Peniston.”

Arms: Argent, two bars, azure: a border engrailed [?] from The History of the County Palatine and Duchy of Lancaster

In the genealogical table found in The History of the County Palatine and Duchy of Lancaster, Volume 5, 1893 states:

“Anne, wife of Sir John Digby, of [Ketilby]

Mary, wife of Sir Thom. Tresham, of Rushton”

Collins’s Peerage of England; Genealogical, Biographical, and Historical, 1812, pg. 472 which states:

“Anne, to Sit John Digby, of Kettleby, co. Lincoln, Kt.

Mary, to Sir Thomas Tresham, Kt.”

Bank’s The Dormant and Extinct Baronage of England Or, An Historical and Genealogical Account of the Lives, Public Emploiments, and Most Memorable Actions, of the English Nobility who Have Flourished from the Norman Conquest to the Year 1806: Deduced from Public Records, Ancient Historians, the Works of Eminent Heralds, and from Other Celebrated and Approved Authorities · Volume 3, 1809, pg. 596-7 which states:

“Anne, to Sir John Digby, of Ketilby, in com, Leic

Mary, to Sir Thomas Tresham, knight”

More sources that state Mary married Sir Thomas Tresham and Anne to Sir John Digby:

Edward Kimber. An Extinct Peerage of England Containing an Account of All Those Families Whose Titles are Extinct …, 1769, pg. 246.

So where does the name Anne Parr appear as the wife of Sir Thomas Tresham? We have an article on The Tudor Society which states:

“Thomas was married twice, first to Anne Parr, daughter of William, Lord Parr,”

Sources? I can’t seem to find where this author got their information. The sources I can find to support this:

The History of Parliament: the House of Commons 1509-1558, ed. S.T. Bindoff, 1982. “TRESHAM, Sir Thomas (by 1500-59), of Rushton, Northan” states:

m. Anne, da. and coh. of Sir William Parr, Lord Parr of Horton”

The Visitations of Northamptonshire Made in 1564 and 1618-19 With Northamptonshire Pedigrees from Various Harleian Mss, 1887, pg. 202 which states:

“Sir Thomas Tresham, Kt., Lord Prior of Jerusalem in England = Anne, da. and coheir of Sir William Parr of Horton, Kt., Lord Parr of Horton”

Here’s an early publication by Collin’s, The Baronettage of England, written in 1720 which states on pg. 242:

Anne, daughter and coheir of William Parr, afterwards Lord Parr of Horton

So… who is who?? You got me. All I know is that a daughter of Lord Parr of Horton married Sir Thomas Tresham. Anyone else think they can solve this? Why does it matter? Just thought it would be nice to sort out the daughters.

EDIT: found the article for Sir John Digby on History of Parliament. His wife?

m. settlement 1528/29, Mary, da. and coh. of Sir William Parr, Baron Parr of Horton…

His widow married Henry Broke

Go figure! So perhaps it is Lady Mary Digby and Lady Anne Tresham…at least according to The History of Parliament.

(c) Meg McGath, 10 March 2023.