Control, Marriage, and Power in 16th-Century Germany

Control, Marriage, and Power in 16th-Century Germany

Eberwin III (1536 – 19 February 1562) was a German nobleman of the elder line of the House of Bentheim-Steinfurt. He ruled Bentheim and Steinfurt from 1544 until his death. From 1557 onward, he was also Count of Tecklenburg and Lord of Rheda — by marriage.

In 1553, at age 18, he married 21-year-old Anna of Tecklenburg-Schwerin, the heiress of Tecklenburg.

She was not a decorative bride.

She was a ruling heir.

When her father, Conrad of Tecklenburg-Schwerin, died, a dispute erupted over who held authority.

Anna asserted her right to rule suo jure — in her own name.

Eberwin claimed authority jure uxoris — by right of his wife.

This was not a marital disagreement.

It was a constitutional conflict over sovereignty.

Arrested for Ruling

When Anna refused to relinquish control of her inheritance, Eberwin escalated the matter dramatically.

He had her arrested and confined in her own residence, Tecklenburg Castle.

A ruling countess — imprisoned for asserting legal authority over her own lands.

Anna of Tecklenburg-Schwerin was confined in Tecklenburg Castle during her dispute with Eberwin III over whether she ruled suo jure (in her own right) or he ruled jure uxoris (by right of marriage).

And yet.

During her tenure, the castle underwent significant structural transformation under Anna’s direction.

The castle in the 17th century as seen from the Kahler Berg, based on the Solms engraving

What Changed Under Anna:

Outer windows were enlarged — increasing light and comfort. A new access road (today’s Schlossstrasse) was constructed. A new north-eastern entrance was created. The castle shifted from fortress mentality to stately residence.

In doing so, Tecklenburg lost some of its defensive strength.

Part of a bastion was buried beneath the embankment created for the new approach road.

That buried bastion wasn’t rediscovered until 1944 — accidentally uncovered while digging an air raid shelter.

Castle ruins from Wikipedia

Later, in the 17th century, the Mauritz Gate (Mauritztor) was built at this new entrance under Count Mauritz. Its lower levels and coat-of-arms frieze still survive.

Release from Imprisonment 

She was released only after intervention by Christopher of Oldenburg.

Following her release, the nobility of Tecklenburg sided with Anna. Eberwin was accused of adultery. Anna accused him of reckless financial excess — including luxury horses and the commissioning of his 1560 portrait by Hermann tom Ring.

Portrait: Count Eberwin III of Bentheim-Steinfurt (1560), painted by Hermann tom Ring. Currently displayed at the LWL State Museum in Münster.

After mediation by neighboring rulers, the couple agreed to a legal separation a mensa et thoro — “from bed and board.”

The Outcome

The conflict ended in 1562 when Eberwin died of syphilis at age 26.

He was succeeded by his infant son, Arnold III of Bentheim.

Under Anna’s regency.

Anna — the woman he attempted to confine and override — ultimately governed.

Why This Matters

This case illustrates a fundamental tension in early modern Europe:

When a woman inherited power in her own right, marriage did not automatically erase her sovereignty — but it could trigger conflict.

Anna of Tecklenburg asserted that inheritance did not dissolve into her husband’s authority.

And despite imprisonment, political pressure, and marital collapse, she retained her position.

Control, marriage, and power were deeply intertwined in the 16th century.

But Anna’s story makes one thing clear:

Women who ruled suo jure were not anomalies.

They were legal realities — even when challenged.

Power Struggles

Anna fought for suo jure authority in the 1550s.

But within decades, Tecklenburg’s autonomy would face larger structural threats from regional consolidation powers like Cleves where Queen Anne of Cleves was born.

It’s a classic small-county vs. rising territorial-state pattern in the Empire.

You see the long arc of:

Female inheritance dispute → male contestation → dynastic instability → regional consolidation pressures.

By the later 16th century, the Duchy of Cleves (Jülich-Cleves-Berg) was expanding influence across the Lower Rhine–Westphalia region.

Anne of Cleves window emblem

Tecklenburg was a smaller but strategically important county.

After Anna’s regency period and the succession struggles involving her son Arnold III, Tecklenburg became entangled in territorial disputes with stronger neighboring powers — including Cleves.

Visibility and Power in 16th Century Portraits

In the 16th century, portraiture wasn’t just vanity — it was political propaganda. When someone like Eberwin commissions a formal portrait (like the 1560 one by Hermann tom Ring), he’s doing more than decorating a wall. He’s saying:

I rule. I possess status. I possess wealth. I control the narrative.

Anna, despite being the suo jure heiress, doesn’t get the same monumental visual legacy attached to her name.

That absence is telling.

Women who ruled in their own right often:

Appeared in smaller devotional portraits Were depicted within marriage imagery Or were visually erased unless politically necessary

Meanwhile, men in jure uxoris claims rushed to commission grand, standalone, armor-or-velvet portraits to solidify authority.

It’s narrative control in oil paint.

And here’s the irony in Anna’s case:

He commissions the portrait.

He spends lavishly.

He tries to imprison her.

He dies at 26.

She governs.

History kept her power, even if the canvas didn’t.

Sources

• Wikipedia (with regret, sigh) don’t do it kids! 😂

Christmas Concerto by Arcangelo Corelli by the Blake High School String Quartet (2001)

🎄 Christmas Concerto by Arcangelo Corelli

Blake High School String Quartet, 2001, performing at the Kennedy Center Millennium Stage, with Meghan McGath as lead violinist.

We were winners of the local classical radio competition Young Artists in the Community in Washington, DC (DMV).

This performance took place during my senior year at Blake High School for the Performing Arts in Silver Spring, Maryland.

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays

—Meg 💋

To the men like Lord Darnley, and all the men who mistake control for care

Image: ChatGPT

To the men like Lord Darnley, and all the men who mistake control for care

There’s a certain kind of man who doesn’t want to help —
he wants to rule.

History has a name for him.

Lord Darnley wasn’t remembered because he governed wisely or protected anyone.
He’s remembered because he demanded authority he didn’t earn, resented a capable woman, and destabilized everything around him while insisting he was entitled to power.

Sound familiar?

These men don’t build.
They block.

They insert themselves as gatekeepers, slow down solutions, override competence, and insist that everything flow through them — not because it helps, but because it centers them.

Shakespeare understood this dynamic too.

In Hamlet, the rot isn’t just murder — it’s usurpation.
A man who takes the throne without legitimacy, then demands loyalty while poisoning the household.

“Something is rotten in the state of Denmark” isn’t about madness.
It’s about power taken where it doesn’t belong.

When someone insists on being “King” of a family while actively obstructing the people who know what they’re doing, that’s not leadership.
That’s insecurity wearing a crown.

And history is very clear on how those stories end.

Not with reverence.
With footnotes.

Henry VIII didn’t just execute Anne Boleyn and Katherine Howard — he erased them.

AI: Henry & his consort Kateryn surrounded by the ghost of Anne Boleyn, Henry Howard & Katherine Howard. The three cousins who Henry VIII executed.

Henry VIII didn’t just execute Anne Boleyn and Katherine Howard — he erased them.

Not because they were guilty.

Not because they were dangerous.

But because they injured his ego, and Henry VIII could not tolerate narcissistic shame.

He ERASED them.
• Their coats of arms torn down
• Initials removed from palaces
• Portraits hidden or destroyed
• Their reputations smeared
• Their names forbidden at court
• Their supporters scattered
• His daughter by Anne was sent away immediately and lost her status as Princess Elizabeth. She was hence Lady Elizabeth Tudor.

This is classic narcissistic annihilation:
“If you injure me, you cease to exist.”

He literally rewrote history documents to frame himself as:
• righteous
• innocent
• betrayed
• the victim
• morally justified

He needed to believe he wasn’t the problem — THEY were.

Typical narcissistic rewriting of the narrative.

The charges against both women were manufactured or exaggerated — not to seek justice, but to restore Henry’s fragile self-image.

Henry VIII’s entire marital history reads like a narcissistic abuse cycle

He:
• love bombed
• isolated
• tested loyalty
• demanded admiration
• punished perceived slights
• rewrote narratives
• replaced women quickly
• destroyed those who “shamed” him

The man was a pathological narcissist with absolute power.

(ChatGPT)

And Anne Boleyn and Katherine Howard were two women who suffered the worst aspect of that pathology:
Total erasure as punishment for wounding him.

Anne and Katherine weren’t executed because they were guilty.
They were executed because Henry was “wounded” by them. He became the victim in his eyes.

“How misfortunate I am to have so many ill-conditioned wives!” — King Henry VIII in ‘The Tudors’ (S4E5)

The Annapolis Tea Party

Francis Blackwell Mayer’s painting of the burning of the Peggy Stewart during the Annapolis Tea Party in 1774. (Source: https://boundarystones.weta.org/2012/12/16/annapolis-tea-party-1774)

On October 15, 1774, the ship Peggy Stewart sailed up the Severn River into Annapolis harbor carrying “seventeen packages, containing 2,320 lb. of that detestable weed — tea.”

Handbills were immediately circulated through the city calling for a public meeting. The ship’s owner, Anthony Stewart, a British Loyalist deeply in debt from earlier failed ventures, took a desperate gamble by landing the tea in Maryland.

This ship would soon ignite what we Marylanders call “The Annapolis Tea Party.” On October 19, 1774, under public pressure, Stewart was compelled to burn his own vessel to the waterline.

Dr. Charles Alexander Warfield wasn’t merely an onlooker — he was reportedly among the men who ordered the destruction, declaring they must “destroy the ship and the cargo, or destroy the liberty of the people.” The surname may seem familiar to Marylanders as The Duchess of Windsor was born, Bessie Wallis Warfield. Wallis became Duchess when she married the abdicated King Edward VIII of the United Kingdom in 1937.

Last year marked the 250th anniversary of that act of protest. The very ground where the Peggy Stewart burned once belonged to my ancestors — they stood there as history turned to flame on their own shore.

Maryland Gazette 20 October 1774, pg 2. (See full document at Maryland State Archives)

Sources

From Mount Vernon to Montclair Dr: William Bernard Sears

Screenshot of the Mount Vernon website showing a Virtual Tour of the Dining Room which was painted green. My ancestor, William Bernard Sears, carved the fireplace for President Washington.

William Bernard Sears was a master joiner and architect in colonial Virginia, and the mantelpiece he created for Mount Vernon’s dining room is one of the finest surviving examples of mid-18th-century craftsmanship.

His work linked him directly with George Washington and George Mason — two of the most influential figures of the Revolutionary era — since he also contributed to Gunston Hall’s interiors. The fact that Washington personally commissioned him speaks volumes about his reputation for precision and artistry.

My connection to him means my family literally left its mark on one of the most historically important houses in America — and on the emerging American aesthetic blending British design (Abraham Swan’s The British Architect, 1745) with early Federal taste.

That vivid verdigris green (the one on the Mount Vernon mantel room walls) was a power color in the 18th century — expensive, vibrant, and a sign of sophistication and intellect. It was made from copper-based pigments, often imported from Europe, so when Washington had that room painted, it was a bold, fashionable choice.

So yeah — I unknowingly recreated the same palette that my ancestor, William Bernard Sears, helped bring to life at Mount Vernon at the house 🏡 on Montclair.

That’s some full-circle ancestral energy right there. 🤯

—Meg

I even made this years ago,,,🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Ancestry of Meghan Elizabeth McGath (b.1983)

The Moran family of Washington D.C. was the family of my great-grandmother, Sadie Woodbury Moran. Sadie married to Master Sergeant Joseph Lovey Smallwood, aka John Williams of Leesburg, Virginia—>Dorothy May Williams m. Corporal John Roger McGath—> Christopher John McGath married Susan Marie DeCamp—>Meghan Elizabeth McGath, who is recently divorced.

The obituary of Mrs Kate M LaPorte is that of my 2nd great-grandaunt who was the sister of Henry Clay Moran (Harry Moran in the Obituary). Henry married Cora Elizabeth Beavers. They were parents to Sadie W. Moran.

Obituary for Mrs Kate M. LaPorte of Peoria, Illinois. Kate was my 2nd great-grandaunt. Personal record of Meghan McGath.

🖤—Lady Meghan McGath, 5 October 2025—🖤

Donations can be sent to @tudorqueen6 on PayPal. 💸💰🤑💰💸

Reference & Sources

All photographs, artwork, & screenshots in this article were taken by the author, Meghan McGath (tudorqueen6).

Images include personal documentation of Mount Vernon’s dining room, the verdigris green wall restoration, and the Montclair Drive interior echoing that palette.

Research references include:

Mount Vernon Ladies’ Association restoration archives (architectural correspondence and pigment studies).

Gunston Hall Historic Site publications and conservation notes.

Family genealogical records tracing the Sears line through the Moran branches, verified by personal records of Ms. Meghan McGath from the papers of Mrs Dorothy McGath (born Williams).

Maryland State Archives.

The British Architect (Abraham Swan, 1745), used for stylistic context of 18th-century joinery and design motifs.

All commentary and historical synthesis © 2025 Meghan Elizabeth McGath. Please credit when sharing or excerpting.

Lady Frances Manners, Lady Bergavenny

Lady Frances Neville, (née Manners) Lady Bergavenny (c.1530 – circa September 1576) was an English noblewoman and author. Little is known of either Lady or Lord Bergavenny, except that the latter was accused of behaving in a riotous and unclean manner by some Puritain commentators. Lady Bergavenny’s work appeared in The Monument of Matrones in 1582 and was a series of “Praiers“. Her devotions were sixty-seven prose prayers, one metrical prayer against vice, a long acrostic prayer on her daughter’s name, and an acrostic prayer containing her own name.

Family

Coat of arms of Sir Thomas Manners, 1st Earl of Rutland, KG
Rutland’s stall plate remains installed within St. George’s Chapel. The arms are: quarterly:
1 and 4, or, two bars azure, a chief quarterly of the last and gules, on the 1st and 4th, two fleurs-de-lis or, on the 2nd and 3rd, a lion passant gaurdant or (Manners);
2, a grand quarter consisting of
1, gules, three water bougets argent (Ros)
2, azure, a Catherine wheel or (Belvoir)
3, gules, three Catherine wheels argent (Espec)
4, argent, a fess between two bars gemels gules (Badlesmere)
3, a grand quarter consisting of
1, gules, three lions pasant guardant or, within a bordure argent (Holland, Earls of Kent)
2 and 3, argent, a saltire engrailed gules (Tiptoft)
4, or, a lion rampant gules (Edward Charleton, 5th Baron Charleton of Powys (1370-1421))

Lady Frances Bergavenny was the third daughter of Thomas Manners, 1st Earl of Rutland and his second wife, Eleanor Paston. Her father was a soldier and the eldest son of Sir George Manners of Belvoir, Leicestershire, and his wife, Anne St. Leger. By Anne St. Leger, Frances was thus a great-granddaughter of Anne of York, the elder sister of Edward IV and Richard III.

Before 1554, Frances had married Henry Nevill, 6th Baron Bergavenny. Nevill or Neville, was born between 1527 and 1535. He was the son of George Neville, 5th Lord Bergavenny and Lady Mary Stafford. Neville succeeded to the title of 4th Lord Bergavenny after his father’s death in 1535. He held office of Chief Larderer at the coronation of Queen Mary in 1553. When Lady Bergavenny died in 1576, Neville remarried to Elizabeth Darrell, daughter of Stephen Darrell and Philippe Weldon, before 1586; they had no issue. He died 10 February 1586/87 without male issue. He was buried on 21 March 1586/87 at Birling, Kent, England.

She died circa September 1576 and was buried at Birling, Kent, England.

Children

Lord and Lady Bergavenny had one daughter Hon. Mary Neville, Baroness Le Despenser (25 March 1554 — 28 June 1626). Mary gained the title of suo jure 3rd/7th Baroness le Despenser. She had claimed the succession to the Barony of Bergavenny, but this was settled on her cousin, Edward Neville, who became the 7th Baron Bergavenny.

The first, second, and fourth creations of Baron le Despenser had been under attainder from 1400 upon the death of Mary’s ancestor, Thomas le Despencer, 2nd Baron le Despencer, [1st Earl of Gloucester] (1373–1400) and became abeyant as well in 1449 after the death of the infant Lady Anne Beauchamp, the 15th Countess of Warwick. The representation of the three Baronies of le Despencer fell into abeyance between Anne’s cousin George Nevill, 4th Baron Bergavenny and aunt, Anne de Beauchamp, 16th Countess of Warwick. On the attainder and execution of Lady Margaret Plantagenet [Margaret Pole], Countess of Salisbury on 28 May 1541 any claim to the three Baronies by the descendants of the 16th Countess of Warwick, lapsed and the sole representation lay with the Barons Bergavenny. The attainder of Thomas, 2nd Baron le Despenser, was reversed in 1461 but the abeyancies continued until 25 May 1604, when the abeyancy of the 1295 Barony of le Despencer was terminated in favour of Mary Neville. She married Sir Thomas Fane, son of George Fane, on 12 December 1574. They were parents to Sir Francis Fane, who gained the title of 1st Earl of Westmorland. The title of Earl of Westmorland was forfeit after the death of Mary’s cousin, Charles Neville, 6th Earl of Westmorland. The title was revived in 1624 in favour of Fane because Mary was a descendant of Sir Edward Neville, 1st Baron Bergavenny, a younger son of the 1st Earl of the 1329 creation [Ralph Neville, husband of Lady Joan Beaufort and son-in-law to Prince John of Gaunt, 1st Duke of Lancaster].

Lady Despenser died on 28 June 1626 at age 72.

Relations to Queen Kateryn

Both Kateryn and Frances descend from the Ros family, Lady Joan of Kent (Princess of Wales) who married into the Holland family, and Lady Joan Beaufort who married into the Neville family among others lines.

Works

Her Praiers in prose and verse were later published in 1582 by Thomas Bentley in the Second Lamp of his anthology of Protestant women writer’s prayers, The Monument of Matrones. In a deathbed dedication of her work to her daughter, she calls it a “jewell of health for the soule, and a perfect path to paradise.” Her collection includes sixty-seven pages of prose prayers for private use and public worship linked to various occasions and times of day; a five-page acrostic prayer based on her daughter Mary Fane’s name, and a concluding prayer based on her own name.

References

  • Beilin, Elaine V. “Frances Neville, Lady Bergavenny” in Matthew, H.C.G. and Brian Harrison, eds. The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. vol. 45, 490-491. London: OUP, 2004.
  • McCoy, Richard, Kathleen Lynch, Carol Brobeck, Martha Fay, Roque Rueda, “Redefining the Sacred–Monument of Matrones,” Redefining the Sacred in Early Modern England: An NEH Summer Institute. -Folger Shakespeare Library, 1998. Web. 30 Nov. 2011. http://www.folger.edu/html/folger_institute/sacred/image13.html
  • Bentley, Thomas. Monument of Matrones. London, imprinted by Henrie Denham, [1582]. http://luna.folger.edu/luna/servlet/s/6z39cc
  • The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. vol. 45, 490-491. London: OUP, 2011

Written by Meg McGath (September 2012)

(Update 8 September 2025)

21 September 2025: World Alzheimer’s Day

Dorothy May Williams (1924-2007)

Today I honor my Grandma, Dorothy Williams, on World Alzheimer’s Day. I realize it’s not Kateryn Parr related — however it is in a way. My ancestors were at court during her life and reign. Dorothy descends from and is related to several Tudor figures.

Her roots run deep in history — her father, Joseph AKA John, was born a Smallwood and her mom, Sadie, was also of Aristocratic descent tying our family to generations who helped build and shape this country. But to me, she was Grandma: a woman of strength, love, and quiet resilience.

I remember seeing her in the nursing home — I felt so bad — she couldn’t move, she couldn’t speak but when I saw her she started to cry and tears came to her eyes … I think she remembered me… she always loved me like a daughter especially after losing her two baby daughters.

I used to visit her a lot after going to the National Shrine for Mass while she still lived in Mount Rainer, Maryland. She would make dinner and we would hang out along with her dog while watching whatever was on TV. She never remarried after my grandpa died and always talked about how much she loved him — he was named John but she called him Johnny.

My Dad, Chris, and her mother, Sadie, lived with her in Mount Rainer. Dad attended Catholic University for his masters after graduating from Ohio State. He met my mom at St John’s and they were married at Caldwell Hall in the early 80s. Sadie would remain in her household until she became too sick to care for herself. She went into a nursing home and died in 1992 after almost a Century of being alive. Born in the Gilded Age, my Nana died a few years before the Millennium.

In early dementia, Dorothy was placed in assisted living where she stayed for some time. She had to give up her dog which must have been heartbreaking. My mom ended up giving it away like it meant nothing. Misty didn’t deserve that.

After running out of money, she entered a nursing home where she died from Alzheimer’s on 11 September 2007. She was flown back to Columbus, Ohio to be buried with the love of her life and her two daughters who were buried elsewhere in the cemetery. At her burial, a blue butterfly landed on her casket. She was fond of monarch butterflies and I still have her magnet from her refrigerator somewhere in storage, but my family won’t let me have access to my belongings from my condo for well over a year now.

I had planned on walking/running for the cause, but I got injured and became sick at the end of 2017 and into 2018. And it’s been hell ever since. Instead of helping me with my health, my maternal family has been abusive and discriminatory towards me. I have had almost no help since my ex walked out. Everyone I go to refuses to get involved or sided with my abusive ex. Sure wish I had met someone like my Grandma married. I never met my Grandpa.

Alzheimer’s may have dimmed my grandma’s memories, but it could never erase who she was — or how she lives on through me. 💜

8 May 1575: Letter from Lady Anne Talbot to the Countess of Shrewsbury

Lady Anne Talbot (née Herbert) to Bess of Hardwick, Countess of Shrewsbury.

To the ryght honorable and my asurred good lady and moother the Countes of Shrowsbery./

Good madame, I am to craue pardon of you for not wryteinge by my lordes man Harry Grace, the causse I wylled hym to declare to your Ladyship whych was the extremty that my syster of Pembroke was In, at that tyme whych hath contenued tell theursdaye Laste, sethensse that daye she hath ben out of her soundynge, but not able to stand or gooe, her greatest gryf Is nowe want of slepe, and not able to away wyth the syght of meat, but consederynge her estat befor, we thynke our selfes hapy of thys change, hopenng that better wyll followe shortely, the Quynes Majesty hath ben here wyth her tywss, very latt both tymes, and last tyme, yt was x of the cloke at nyght or ever her Majesty whent hensse, being so great a myste, as ther were dyueres of the barges and Boottes that wayted of her loste ther wayes, and landed In wronge plases, but thankes be to god her Majesty came well home wythout colde or feare, for the holdyng of the Prograce, I am ssure your Ladyship hereth for my part I can wryt noe sertaynte, but as I am In all other matteres, as I haue alwayes professed and as dewtye doth bynd me, ready at your Ladyship’s comandement, and In any thynge I maye showe yt ether at thys tyme, or when occassyon seruet[h] yf I be not as wyllynge therto as any chylde of your owne, then lett me be condemened accordynge to my desertes, otherwyss I humbly craue your Ladyship’s good openyon of me not to decreasse, rememberynge your Ladyship’s comandement here to for to wryt to you as often as I coulde, whych nowe In thys plase I shall haue better meanes then I haue had In the country, and ther vpon pressumyng, to lengthen my letter vpon any occassyon, although I count thys of my syster very evell newes yet consederynge, her recouery, I hope my longe scryblynge, wyll the lesse trouble your Ladyship and so wyth my moste humble dewty to my Lorde and your Ladyship I humbly take my leue From Baynardes Castell the viijth of Maye: 

your Ladyship’s assured loueing daughter to comande

Anne Talbott

My styster of Pembroke hath wylled me to remember her humble dewty to my lorde and you, wyth desyre of hys dayly blessynge assoune as she Is able she wyll dowe yt her selfe/.

To the right honorable and my assured good lady and mother, the Countess of Shrewsbury

Good Madam, I am to crave pardon of you for not writing my lords man Harry Grace, the cause I willed him to declare to your Ladyship which was the [extremity] that my sister Pembroke was. In, at that time which has continued till Thursday. Last [sethensse] that day she has been out of her

Summary: Anne Talbot (née Herbert) writes to Bess (countess of Shrewsbury) apologising for not writing sooner. Her ‘sister of Pembroke’ has been very ill, but is now recovering. The queen has come to visit her sister twice – both times late at night. On one occasion the queen didn’t leave until 10 o’clock at night because ‘the barges and boats that waited of her lost their ways, and landed in wrong places’ due to a great mist. Letter features: papered seal, embossed Ribbon/floss – no. Letter packet – slit and band.

Lady Anne Talbot was born to Sir William Herbert, 1st Earl of Pembroke and his first wife, Anne Parr, sister to Queen Katherine Parr. She married Francis, Lord Talbot, eldest son of the 6th Earl of Shrewsbury and his first wife, Gertrude Manners. Elizabeth “Bess” Hardwick was the second wife. She had no issue from her marriage to the 6th Earl. Who is this ‘sister of Pembroke’? Catherine Talbot, Lady Herbert, wife of Lady Talbot’s brother, Sir Henry, Lord Herbert, later 2nd Earl of Pembroke?

Bess of Hardwick’s Letters: The Complete Correspondences c.1550-1608. Folger Shakespeare Library, Cavendish-Talbot MSS, X.d.428 (121)

Dedication to All Women

Written by Meg McGath

For all the women whose names were never written down,

but whose legacies live in us.

This work is for the mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts, and grandmothers

who shaped history in silence—

who bore witness, raised families, held communities together,

and whose stories were never recorded

because they weren’t seen as important enough to remember.

I see you now.

Your names may not be etched in stone or inked in parchment,

but your strength runs in my blood.

This is my attempt to write you back into history—

to speak your names aloud,

to honor your lives, your losses, your love,

and to say:

you mattered. You still do.

This is for my ancestors

—and every woman whose story was buried beneath a man’s will,

but whose spirit carried generations forward

© 2025 Meg McGath. All research and original commentary belong to the author.