Lady Frances Manners, Lady Bergavenny

Lady Frances Neville, (née Manners) Lady Bergavenny (c.1530 – circa September 1576) was an English noblewoman and author. Little is known of either Lady or Lord Bergavenny, except that the latter was accused of behaving in a riotous and unclean manner by some Puritain commentators. Lady Bergavenny’s work appeared in The Monument of Matrones in 1582 and was a series of “Praiers“. Her devotions were sixty-seven prose prayers, one metrical prayer against vice, a long acrostic prayer on her daughter’s name, and an acrostic prayer containing her own name.

Family

Coat of arms of Sir Thomas Manners, 1st Earl of Rutland, KG
Rutland’s stall plate remains installed within St. George’s Chapel. The arms are: quarterly:
1 and 4, or, two bars azure, a chief quarterly of the last and gules, on the 1st and 4th, two fleurs-de-lis or, on the 2nd and 3rd, a lion passant gaurdant or (Manners);
2, a grand quarter consisting of
1, gules, three water bougets argent (Ros)
2, azure, a Catherine wheel or (Belvoir)
3, gules, three Catherine wheels argent (Espec)
4, argent, a fess between two bars gemels gules (Badlesmere)
3, a grand quarter consisting of
1, gules, three lions pasant guardant or, within a bordure argent (Holland, Earls of Kent)
2 and 3, argent, a saltire engrailed gules (Tiptoft)
4, or, a lion rampant gules (Edward Charleton, 5th Baron Charleton of Powys (1370-1421))

Lady Frances Bergavenny was the third daughter of Thomas Manners, 1st Earl of Rutland and his second wife, Eleanor Paston. Her father was a soldier and the eldest son of Sir George Manners of Belvoir, Leicestershire, and his wife, Anne St. Leger. By Anne St. Leger, Frances was thus a great-granddaughter of Anne of York, the elder sister of Edward IV and Richard III.

Before 1554, Frances had married Henry Nevill, 6th Baron Bergavenny. Nevill or Neville, was born between 1527 and 1535. He was the son of George Neville, 5th Lord Bergavenny and Lady Mary Stafford. Neville succeeded to the title of 4th Lord Bergavenny after his father’s death in 1535. He held office of Chief Larderer at the coronation of Queen Mary in 1553. When Lady Bergavenny died in 1576, Neville remarried to Elizabeth Darrell, daughter of Stephen Darrell and Philippe Weldon, before 1586; they had no issue. He died 10 February 1586/87 without male issue. He was buried on 21 March 1586/87 at Birling, Kent, England.

She died circa September 1576 and was buried at Birling, Kent, England.

Children

Lord and Lady Bergavenny had one daughter Hon. Mary Neville, Baroness Le Despenser (25 March 1554 — 28 June 1626). Mary gained the title of suo jure 3rd/7th Baroness le Despenser. She had claimed the succession to the Barony of Bergavenny, but this was settled on her cousin, Edward Neville, who became the 7th Baron Bergavenny.

The first, second, and fourth creations of Baron le Despenser had been under attainder from 1400 upon the death of Mary’s ancestor, Thomas le Despencer, 2nd Baron le Despencer, [1st Earl of Gloucester] (1373–1400) and became abeyant as well in 1449 after the death of the infant Lady Anne Beauchamp, the 15th Countess of Warwick. The representation of the three Baronies of le Despencer fell into abeyance between Anne’s cousin George Nevill, 4th Baron Bergavenny and aunt, Anne de Beauchamp, 16th Countess of Warwick. On the attainder and execution of Lady Margaret Plantagenet [Margaret Pole], Countess of Salisbury on 28 May 1541 any claim to the three Baronies by the descendants of the 16th Countess of Warwick, lapsed and the sole representation lay with the Barons Bergavenny. The attainder of Thomas, 2nd Baron le Despenser, was reversed in 1461 but the abeyancies continued until 25 May 1604, when the abeyancy of the 1295 Barony of le Despencer was terminated in favour of Mary Neville. She married Sir Thomas Fane, son of George Fane, on 12 December 1574. They were parents to Sir Francis Fane, who gained the title of 1st Earl of Westmorland. The title of Earl of Westmorland was forfeit after the death of Mary’s cousin, Charles Neville, 6th Earl of Westmorland. The title was revived in 1624 in favour of Fane because Mary was a descendant of Sir Edward Neville, 1st Baron Bergavenny, a younger son of the 1st Earl of the 1329 creation [Ralph Neville, husband of Lady Joan Beaufort and son-in-law to Prince John of Gaunt, 1st Duke of Lancaster].

Lady Despenser died on 28 June 1626 at age 72.

Relations to Queen Kateryn

Both Kateryn and Frances descend from the Ros family, Lady Joan of Kent (Princess of Wales) who married into the Holland family, and Lady Joan Beaufort who married into the Neville family among others lines.

Works

Her Praiers in prose and verse were later published in 1582 by Thomas Bentley in the Second Lamp of his anthology of Protestant women writer’s prayers, The Monument of Matrones. In a deathbed dedication of her work to her daughter, she calls it a “jewell of health for the soule, and a perfect path to paradise.” Her collection includes sixty-seven pages of prose prayers for private use and public worship linked to various occasions and times of day; a five-page acrostic prayer based on her daughter Mary Fane’s name, and a concluding prayer based on her own name.

References

  • Beilin, Elaine V. “Frances Neville, Lady Bergavenny” in Matthew, H.C.G. and Brian Harrison, eds. The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. vol. 45, 490-491. London: OUP, 2004.
  • McCoy, Richard, Kathleen Lynch, Carol Brobeck, Martha Fay, Roque Rueda, “Redefining the Sacred–Monument of Matrones,” Redefining the Sacred in Early Modern England: An NEH Summer Institute. -Folger Shakespeare Library, 1998. Web. 30 Nov. 2011. http://www.folger.edu/html/folger_institute/sacred/image13.html
  • Bentley, Thomas. Monument of Matrones. London, imprinted by Henrie Denham, [1582]. http://luna.folger.edu/luna/servlet/s/6z39cc
  • The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. The Oxford Dictionary of National Biography. vol. 45, 490-491. London: OUP, 2011

Written by Meg McGath (September 2012)

(Update 8 September 2025)

21 September 2025: World Alzheimer’s Day

Dorothy May Williams (1924-2007)

Today I honor my Grandma, Dorothy Williams, on World Alzheimer’s Day. I realize it’s not Kateryn Parr related — however it is in a way. My ancestors were at court during her life and reign. Dorothy descends from and is related to several Tudor figures.

Her roots run deep in history — her father, Joseph AKA John, was born a Smallwood and her mom, Sadie, was also of Aristocratic descent tying our family to generations who helped build and shape this country. But to me, she was Grandma: a woman of strength, love, and quiet resilience.

I remember seeing her in the nursing home — I felt so bad — she couldn’t move, she couldn’t speak but when I saw her she started to cry and tears came to her eyes … I think she remembered me… she always loved me like a daughter especially after losing her two baby daughters.

I used to visit her a lot after going to the National Shrine for Mass while she still lived in Mount Rainer, Maryland. She would make dinner and we would hang out along with her dog while watching whatever was on TV. She never remarried after my grandpa died and always talked about how much she loved him — he was named John but she called him Johnny.

My Dad, Chris, and her mother, Sadie, lived with her in Mount Rainer. Dad attended Catholic University for his masters after graduating from Ohio State. He met my mom at St John’s and they were married at Caldwell Hall in the early 80s. Sadie would remain in her household until she became too sick to care for herself. She went into a nursing home and died in 1992 after almost a Century of being alive. Born in the Gilded Age, my Nana died a few years before the Millennium.

In early dementia, Dorothy was placed in assisted living where she stayed for some time. She had to give up her dog which must have been heartbreaking. My mom ended up giving it away like it meant nothing. Misty didn’t deserve that.

After running out of money, she entered a nursing home where she died from Alzheimer’s on 11 September 2007. She was flown back to Columbus, Ohio to be buried with the love of her life and her two daughters who were buried elsewhere in the cemetery. At her burial, a blue butterfly landed on her casket. She was fond of monarch butterflies and I still have her magnet from her refrigerator somewhere in storage, but my family won’t let me have access to my belongings from my condo for well over a year now.

I had planned on walking/running for the cause, but I got injured and became sick at the end of 2017 and into 2018. And it’s been hell ever since. Instead of helping me with my health, my maternal family has been abusive and discriminatory towards me. I have had almost no help since my ex walked out. Everyone I go to refuses to get involved or sided with my abusive ex. Sure wish I had met someone like my Grandma married. I never met my Grandpa.

Alzheimer’s may have dimmed my grandma’s memories, but it could never erase who she was — or how she lives on through me. 💜